121.不要小题大做
不要小题大做。有的人对任何事都喜欢搬弄是非,而有的则对任何事都喜欢大题小做。他们总是开口必言所谓大事,时时煞有介事,事事争议不休或弄得神秘莫测。如果可以避免,对麻烦的事情千万不要太过认真。把应抛掷脑后的事放在心上就十分愚蠢。许多事情看似重大,其实顺其自然就会变得无足轻重。区区小事如果小题大做,后果就会很严重。问题刚出现容易摆脱,若拖拉就难说了。药物本身往往会引起疾病。顺其自然是人生一大要则。
121.Donotmakeabusinessofwhatisnobusiness
Donotmakeabusinessofwhatisnobusiness。Assomemakegossipoutofeverything,soothersbusiness。Theyalwaystalkbig,takeeverythinginearnest,andturnitintoadisputeorasecret。Troublesomethingsmustnotbetakentooseriouslyiftheycanbeavoided。Itispreposteroustotaketoheartthatwhichyoushouldthrowoveryourshoulders。Muchthatwouldbesomethinghasbecomenothingbybeingleftalone,andwhatwasnothinghasbecomeofconsequencebybeingmademuchof。Attheoutsetthingscanbeeasilysettled,butnotafterwards。Oftentheremedycausesthedisease。Itisbynomeanstheleastoflife'srules:toletthingsalone。